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| HOW TO ACT WHEN A GUY TAKES YOU OUT OR WANTS TO TAKE YOU OUT. |
1. When A Guy Wants to Take You Out, Eat at Home Before Going Out:
Don't say "Gbenga wants to take me out this evening so I must clear my stomach because today na today". What if he doesn't get to buy anything? Maybe he just takes you for a walk and you guys talk and get more acquainted with each other. Will you kill him? No... Las Las, you'll say "the guy is wicked, he is poor, he cannot take care of a woman " yen yen yen. Na lie o... You're the problem. I am not excusing a stingy man o... Run away from them if they ever come close. But the guy just said he wants to take you out. That is not tantamount to putting the whole bill of your breakfast, launch or dinner on him.
2. When Leaving Your House, Go Out with Some Cash Or At Least Your ATM Card.
Some guys can be stupid. Because they took you out, they now want to take advantage of you.. My dear just carry yourself enter motor and go home. By the time you sit there expecting him to give you transport, he will now say he forgot his ATM at home and that you should follow him and bla bla bla... that's one of the reasons why abuse and rape exists. Or he wants to touch you because he bought ice cream for you, my sister talk sense into his head and walk out. Also, having cash to support your transportation is your own way of contributing. Don't let him pay the bills of the food and still expect him to give you transport... Except where he insist on giving you. My point is, it's not a right that he must give you.
3. When He Asks "What Would You Like", Tell Him to Get What He Feels Like Getting.
Na him Sabi watin dey him pocket so let him use his sense and buy what he can afford. You may not even be a play girl.. But chances are that you may order what he can't afford... And you know some of our guys na... Their ego will not allow them admit. Some of them will go and borrow to meet your demands. A guy said he wanted to take me out, I hadn't even said I wanted anything o, he stepped to a corner and said to his fellow guy "bros abeg give me 2k make I reason this babe"😂😂😂 I didn't blame the guy... Poor boy just wanted to at least show me that he's man enough.. I wish he knew that we could talk without him spending a dime. If the guy insists on having you make your order yourself, use your mind eye and search your purse. After doing that, order for what you can afford. So if you know you can't afford rice and chicken casserole with sharwama and chivita necter, don't ask him to get it for you. If as both of you are standing there, you can afford meat pie and water, tell him that's what you want.
4. When Both of You Are Together and He's Talking, Don't Just Be Saying "Yes, You're Right, It's True" And Bla Bla Bla...
Sister follow and contribute to the talk na ah ah... You're not daft. How can you sit there and at the end of the time both of you had together, there was no meaningful thing you said...you were just agreeing to what he said all through. If he says "so beautiful lady, what do you have to say".. You will now say "you have said it all" 😂😂😂 said it all where? You better begin to expand your knowledge o... So you can at least contribute.
5. Do You Know That You Too Can Sponsor the Bills Too?
I am not saying you should compete with oga but once in a while, you can pull the stunts too. Or at least, support in your own little way. For crying out loud, guys shod be pampered too. They may not say it but they want to be loved just the same way you want to be loved. Not when he buys what he can afford, you now go home and abuse him in front of your friends. If you're not as poor as you call him, show working.
6. When A Guy Wants to Take You Out, Sister It's Only You He Called. Why Bring Your Friends?
You girls involved should stop that nonsense. The young man is sitting down expecting a beautiful damsel he will now come and see crowd.... The guy go just confuse for the first 10 minutes 😂😂😂. And it's not like you just want the guy to meet your friends as per let him know whom you're flicking with. Mba... You just want them to come so that when you people go back home, you will have enough gist partaining to whether the guy has money or whether he does not have. Whether he can dress or whether he cannot dress. Una just want laugh shekinka.... Stop it already.
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