3 THINGS YOU MUST DO BEFORE YOU GO ON THAT DATE.

3 THINGS YOU MUST DO BEFORE YOU GO ON THAT DATE.

The 3 THINGS YOU MUST DO BEFORE YOU GO ON THAT DATE are as shown below;

1. PRAY ABOUT IT

It is not out of place, or out of line to talk with God about the most intimate affairs of your life, like dating. Some people won't do it because they feel God Understands or He won't send results immediately, so they do not understand what it means to walk In His Grace, BUT you are! Ask God to direct every decision you make before, during, and after the date.

GOD IS NOT BORING, Trust me, He is the one that puts PURE UNDEFILED ROMANCE inside everyone of us, He understands our ATTRACTIONS and EMOTIONS better than any counselor would.

Why don't you rather talk to Him?

2. MAKE YOUR CHOICE

Since its your first date together, and you're probably meeting this man for the First time, be the one to chose the venue for the date. Let it not be far from where you live, but don't let him know that. Let it be a public place so there wouldn't be room to hold hands or hug each other intimately. If you drive your own car, this is not a good time to show off, some men who consider themselves as "good for nothing" just want to size you up and see how they can squeeze you dry from the very beginning.

Take charge of the date, drive it on your own terms, and let him feel your strong IDENTITY without being told.

3. APPLY COMMUNICATION TECHNIQUES

I wish you could understand that your GOAL for this date is not to be ACCEPTED, but to have a good KNOWLEDGE of the gentleman before you. Don't fall for the TRAP of talking too much about yourself that when the date is over, you realize you know NOTHING ABOUT HIM.
Ask him questions, especially about his family, father, mother, and siblings, and be sure to take MENTAL NOTES.

Make sure you ask about what kind of relationship he has with his father especially, you have to know the model that raised him.

• What does this gentleman really do? 
• What are his set targets? 
• Are they realistic?
• Is there any special place in his target he has set aside to feature the woman in his life? 
• Or is it just going to be all about him alone?
•  What are his hobbies?
•  Does he keep friends? If yes, who are they?
•  How much time does he spend with friends?
•  Is he a ladies man?

Observe questions he's not comfortable answering, note the ones that his hand begins to move around and around when he is answering.

Don't get carried away with his sweet talking, observe what part of your body he is staring at when he thinks you are not looking, my guess is, he'll probably steal gazes at your boobies, so be sure to dress properly with all those "telling areas" covered up nicely, dress with the conviction that God lives in you, trust me I know what boobies can do to a man, even to the men with unbelievable strong focus, you don't want to distract his vision by showing him something to hungry for too early.

REMEMBER THAT THIS PARTICULAR DATE GOAL IS NOT ABOUT FINDING ACCEPTANCE, but about knowing a bit of this man who has taken interest in you.

I pray for someone who believes, your next Date Night would lead you to your Marital Home In Jesus' Name, Amen!

Written By Victor Willz Firdance